I know, not nearly as fun as my photos right? But let’s make sure we are on the same page for our date. Please read below before setting up a date with me.


  • Are you based in Chicago or Houston? Both, I’ll clarify, I live in Houston, and I visit Chicago once or twice monthly. A good way to stay informed about my visit dates in Chicago are through Twitter or Tryst. A minimum of 4 hour dinner date will waive all the FMTYs expenses 😉
  • I’m new and I have no references, what do you need me to do to schedule a date? Thank you for your interest to be your first friend! I’m newbie friendly. I require 1 or 2 things of the next options: Photo DL (you can blur sensitive info) with your face showing, work ID photo, Linked In or 2 references. The more info the better.
  • Do I have to pay deposit? Yes, this is to ensure and lock in our date due to being a busy bee especially to new friends, outcalls, touring, Drive Me To You and FMTY.
  • Do you see couples? Oh god yes! I love women.
  • What can I expect in our date? The only thing I dislike is boredom, I seek mutual fun, but I understand you may be nervous when you arrive, let’s open a bottle of wine at my disposition (or a restaurant) to relax the environment AKA us. Let’s explore, build and experiment ourselves with a glass of wine, mixed berries with low jazz music.
  • How will you be dressed for our date? Depending the location and your requests, generally if my place during day expect summer dress or activewear. If evening I’ll be wearing a LBD. For hotels outcalls a business attire will be best for us to avoid attention since my looks turn a lots of heads. Expect something different underneath ;). I can accommodate to requests too, but I love a man who gift me the outfit he requests 😉
  • Hygiene is important? Yes, it should be extremely important for both of us, is not a one-side thing. This means freshly well showered and freshly brushed teeth. I have mouthwash, teeth brush and shower with towels included at my incall and will be provided to you if you need it. You will expect the same from me of course!
  • Do you have tattoos or piercings? I do not have any piercings or tattoos.
  • Why you won’t show your face? Due to the private nature of my business, the stigma we often receive and most important, my real world job, I cannot show full-face photos or sharing selfies. I have few reviews that can paint you well my face though 🙂
  • Do you have a cancellation policy? I do not have a cancellation policy, seems rather unnecessary BUT I put a lot of effort planning our date in my busy and buzzy life therefore keep in mind the 20% deposit will be non-refundable but we can reschedule in the event of a cancellation by your part.
  • What if I don’t want to leave paper trail? I have few solutions for that, please contact me for details.
  • Do you see women? 3 is never a crowd for me, I’m bi so I’m always happy to explore. I’m also open to meet new ladies but please notify me prior so I can speak to her.
  • I’m a celebrity/influencer/famous, how do I know I can trust your discretion and not use me for fame? I can assure you discretion is paramount for me due to my real life, I have much more to lose than yourself. I seek nothing but fun and genuine connection.
  • I want to take you for a weekend trip, what are your favorite spots to visit? I would love to visit Lake Tahoe, skiing lessons or Tulum, honestly as long I have great company, the place won’t matter too much for me. You can check “HTX” in my menu for specific details.
  • Can I leave you a testimonial? I’m okay with Private Delights, since it’s the only site that is respectful to ladies privacy. But if you plan to write one at another site please be respectful about our private conversations, sensitive information or remarkable things I may have that someone else outside this world can easily recognize who I am, discretion is paramount and not following with that will result blacklisted.